Responding to Circumstances
nThis is not a good testimony to the truth of Christianity, nor an indication of spiritual maturity on our part.
nJesus doesn't want us to go thru life complaining, discouraging ourselves and others:
nJohn 10:10 (NIV) The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full.
nJesus wants us to have life to the full.